Sweet Little sUgar Talker (![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif){kind=small} beyondbounds) wrote,@ 2005-06-19 21:48:00 |
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sex advice ramble...
i had a nice email sex discussion with a friend of mine. he knows he is having sex (with a girl he thinks is dynamite in bed), and requested some extra suggestions from me (i am a self-proclaimed sexpert). here is what i told him, off the top of my head. i thought more than one of you could use a couple suggestions!
no legs up. nah. do something different.
start eating her pussy and don't quit. sounds like she is talented in the area of cumming, so be relentless. don't think your tongue can guarantee orgasm every time. however, if it is bringing her close over and over, grab her fucking hand and have her help you out. course, don't forget the fingers (and you better find that perfect place with your fingers). you may think this is a no-brainer but it's not. i can't tell you how many times i get right to the point of orgasm and never get to finish. guys just don't put enough pressure on the clit at crunch time. (frankly getting me off that way is not the easiest thing to do by ANY means) however, if she is a cum machine like i am, she wants to give it to you. nothing is worse than the guy who brings you to orgasm and then backs off cause the girl starts squirting and drowning him (even choking him). the 100% orgasm is essential. if she begs you to fuck her, don't give in. nothing will make you head north unless she has had the full on 100% gusher. and even if you choke, there is no excuse. deal with it. she will crown you with the invisible kingofmycunt crown. mmmmm ok now i am horny.
as far as positions go, i think men underestimate our appreciation for the missionary position. it may seem an intimate moment, but just go for it. make it so your body couldn't possibly be any closer to her body. when you fuck her, grind into her clit with your hips (envision it). hold onto her face or her hair. touch her skin with your hands. stare at her. say something hot if you like. breathe right into her mouth. over and over. FUCK HER MIND. oh we love that shit.
ok i think i need some self help now. excuse the rambling. those were the first things which came to my mind.
i had a nice email sex discussion with a friend of mine. he knows he is having sex (with a girl he thinks is dynamite in bed), and requested some extra suggestions from me (i am a self-proclaimed sexpert). here is what i told him, off the top of my head. i thought more than one of you could use a couple suggestions!
no legs up. nah. do something different.
start eating her pussy and don't quit. sounds like she is talented in the area of cumming, so be relentless. don't think your tongue can guarantee orgasm every time. however, if it is bringing her close over and over, grab her fucking hand and have her help you out. course, don't forget the fingers (and you better find that perfect place with your fingers). you may think this is a no-brainer but it's not. i can't tell you how many times i get right to the point of orgasm and never get to finish. guys just don't put enough pressure on the clit at crunch time. (frankly getting me off that way is not the easiest thing to do by ANY means) however, if she is a cum machine like i am, she wants to give it to you. nothing is worse than the guy who brings you to orgasm and then backs off cause the girl starts squirting and drowning him (even choking him). the 100% orgasm is essential. if she begs you to fuck her, don't give in. nothing will make you head north unless she has had the full on 100% gusher. and even if you choke, there is no excuse. deal with it. she will crown you with the invisible kingofmycunt crown. mmmmm ok now i am horny.
as far as positions go, i think men underestimate our appreciation for the missionary position. it may seem an intimate moment, but just go for it. make it so your body couldn't possibly be any closer to her body. when you fuck her, grind into her clit with your hips (envision it). hold onto her face or her hair. touch her skin with your hands. stare at her. say something hot if you like. breathe right into her mouth. over and over. FUCK HER MIND. oh we love that shit.
ok i think i need some self help now. excuse the rambling. those were the first things which came to my mind.
