Sweet Little sUgar Talker ([info]beyondbounds) wrote,
@ 2003-01-11 23:45:00
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i know. i am a little bit oral. :)
when it all comes down, what are my favorite things? kisses and blow jobs. (post demonstrating my devotion to the fine art of the bj coming soon.) it's very hard to narrow down, but i find the very core of me lies in my mouth. not only is my mouth a pleasure seeker, but a pleasure maker. i do have a good mouth; no doubt about that one. but my own abilities aren't what provides me with so many happy feelings. the partner makes all the difference in the world.

without a kiss, there is nothing. some people argue that kissing is sex. and i do have to agree to a point. i can't exactly say that i agree with the idea that a good kisser is a good fuck. however, a bad kisser is 90% a horrible fuck. the absence of kissing from sexual acts shows a lack of passion on the part of the person. and sex should be filled with passion and intensity. when i think about the worst experiences in my recent past, they are marked clearly by a lack of deep kissing.

i can't blame anyone for being a bit intimidated by my tongue. it is long and thick, and i do get very excited when i put it to use. sometimes my tongue will explore the every space inside the mouth of my partner. i love feeling his (i am using a generic "he" here for whomever i may be kissing at that time) gums, his teeth, his palate, the underside of his tongue, his inner cheeks. i like to find my way around in there with my tongue, and often stretch my tongue into the depths of his mouth. i like the feeling of his teeth as my tongue glides along the sharp tops or bottoms.

i love feeling the tip of his tongue. our tongues barely touching, meeting in the space not inside my mouth and not inside his. tickling each other, playing together teasingly. i love to suck his lips. most notable is the lust for the bottom lip; but i am not exclusive, and i can adore the top one just as well. i like to suck on his tongue, and i definitely love my tongue sucked. my tongue is taken into his mouth and immediately relaxes and submits, giving it up to him to do what he will (suck it, bite it). i do like the feeling of a pierced tongue. i like circling my tongue around the barbell in his. and i love when his metal clacks on my teeth. each time a surge is sent through me.

i like when my lips are bitten. i love the feeling that my lips are under the power of another person, ready to burst into bloody mess at any time. but they don't. they are under his control, and he lets go before my breaking point. sometimes i like when my lip bleeds. i like waking up the next morning with a swollen cut lip, sore and there to remind me of his kisses for at least the day.

i love continual kisses. kisses that start at the beginning of an evening and never really stop. i love looking in his eyes while we fuck, our mouths never separating from each other. i love when the intensity of the sex is so heavy, that there is no way to really continue a kiss. two bodies thrusting wildly into each other, concentrating on each movement. we become two mouths pressed together, taking breaths into each other. living off each other's air if only for moments. i love those few times when i can kiss him hello and never stop kissing until after we've cum and unwound. suddenly we realize we've been kissing for an hour, no words, no clear sounds. muffled lust and heat captured inbetween two mouths.

lips. beautiful soft thick lips. the softness and sensuality in a kiss with no tongue. the open mouth appreciation of four lips bound together. i can lose myself in that softness. succumbing to a breathlessness within me, letting out a sigh of arousal.

ten seconds of the perfect lips are all i need to be ready. ready for him to plunge himself into me while looking into my eyes and kissing my lips. it's heaven.



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[info]_paegan_
2003-01-11 11:22 pm UTC (link)
i can't exactly say that i agree with the idea that a good kisser is a good fuck. however, a bad kisser is 90% a horrible fuck.

I'll second that opinion.

Does your oralness exhibit itself in other ways? For example, I'm just now able to quit smoking... nearly everything goes into my mouth, even if it's just to add taste to the identifying measures in my memory. But beyond taste, I like to *feel* things with my mouth, both my lips and my tongue.

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-11 11:32 pm UTC (link)
for one thing, i do smoke on occasion. i had it under control for years and years, but i did kinda start up again. i probably smoke about 3 a day right now. really should quit though! the reason i started up again was because i had such an urge to snack. i felt like a cigarette was better than putting food in my mouth. i know, shitty logic!!

this was interesting: I like to *feel* things with my mouth, both my lips and my tongue. i totally agree. i feel that way about food, definitely. i LOVE crunchy things. my mouth loves crunching. and as far as any sexual acts go, i am totally serious that my actual MOUTH LOVES the feeling. i think my mouth is an erogenous zone, for damn sure.

so i see i am not the only oral one around here. :)

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[info]_paegan_
2003-01-11 11:55 pm UTC (link)
my actual MOUTH LOVES the feeling. Oh, I know this sensation! I love how my partner feels through my lips, my tongue, tension under my teeth. I think he consider's himself to be a very lucky boy. *L* I know he likes how oral I am. Sometimes, it's all I want to do, have him in/under(?) my mouth, tasting, feeling, sucking, exploring.

Crap, I'm lonely tonight. I need to stop or I'm going to go out of my head.

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-12 12:00 am UTC (link)
you're telling me! HEAD may be the operative word here!

and i know what you mean. for me it's OFTEN all i want to do is have *it* in my mouth. my mouth has a mind of it's own, truly. i just go with the flow. tasting...yummmm.

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[info]edinburghdomme
2003-01-12 01:34 am UTC (link)
Mmmmm... Nice. I particularly like i like waking up the next morning with a swollen cut lip, sore and there to remind me of his kisses. Yeah.

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-12 02:01 am UTC (link)
thanks. your kissing post was mmmm nice, too. ;)

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[info]edinburghdomme
2003-01-12 02:44 am UTC (link)
Next challenge - write about the BDSM aspect of hugging.

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-12 04:26 pm UTC (link)
good idea. my post about kissing was just a general one. but the hugging one would be a nice challenge. are you going first?

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[info]edinburghdomme
2003-01-12 05:05 pm UTC (link)
Yes, I will. Tomorrow, perhaps. I wrote down another fantasy, but I'm not very happy with it - more me processing out loud.

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[info]starsketcher
2003-01-12 01:38 am UTC (link)
Wow.

Yes, I can clearly see that you and I are on the same page, at least tonight--with respect to that fine oral art of kissing.

Hot damn.

What I really love about your posts--is that you write about erotic, sexual/sensual matter--in such an eloquent, poetic way--that you don't at all paint sex as something vulgar or secret. You beautify the act--the art--of sex...the whole canvas of "copulation," the whole palette of "penetration"...of which kissing is a primary color.

Kissing for me--is in many ways, yes, so so many--sex itself. Hot damn hell yes.

I love reading your posts, and look forward to your future "BJ" post...and all future paintings in your area of the oral arts. ;)

(And yes--I'm sure you get this all the time, but I would very much like to kiss you, sometime...not that it would ever happen, but the thought is indeed sweet.)

Touched,

Chris

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-12 02:08 am UTC (link)
What I really love about your posts--is that you write about erotic, sexual/sensual matter--in such an eloquent, poetic way--that you don't at all paint sex as something vulgar or secret. You beautify the act--the art--of sex...the whole canvas of "copulation," the whole palette of "penetration"...of which kissing is a primary color.
well thank you thank you thank you thank you! what a compliment. sex isn't vulgar or secret at all. sex is a part of us; a special part. anyone who puts the uglies in sex is uncomfortable with themselves (or has been taught to be, as is usually the case) in one way or another. my goal for myself is to always keep an open mind and never limit myself. we should all learn to express each desire, each experience, openly. we should never be ashamed of the things which make us feel good.

and thanks for saying "eloquent". i haven't thought of my writing that way in a long time. i was a writing major eight years ago, but my writing has been on vacation for the last six. my vocabulary isn't nearly what it once was. :/ so, thank you. i am trying.

i checked out your website. to do the 20 minute challenge thing, do you have to become a user? i am not familiar with anything but lj, so i need help. i'll give you a kiiiisss. you live a bit far, so there might be difficulty.

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Friend
[info]circlesky
2003-01-12 08:30 am UTC (link)
I added you as a friend; hope that's ok -- Sky

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-12 04:28 pm UTC (link)
of course it is. and i added you back. :)

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[info]nreality
2003-01-13 12:01 am UTC (link)
hey, we like the same things :) well of course me getting a BJ of course..

*sigh* how i miss kissing.. it's been a long time..

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[info]thetripleraoul
2003-01-13 06:40 am UTC (link)
Ten seconds would be downright stingy, and I pride myself on being generous.

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-14 06:36 pm UTC (link)
by all means, feel free to be as generous as you'd like!!!

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[info]normalgrrl
2003-01-15 11:06 am UTC (link)
my husband and i were having a conversation about how we kiss.
we have very passionate kisses, even when we are just saying hi and i love the techniques together...
i noticed that i am a bottom-lip kisser and he is a top-kisser.
i don't know why i never realized that this is why i like kissing him.
i tried to kiss him by focusing on his top lip and it is impossible for me to do!
so he says.....let's kiss with one of us upside down and see what happens lol!

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-01-16 06:08 pm UTC (link)
that's really really cute. :) personally i am a bottom-lipper for the most part.

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[info]thatdamngood
2003-01-17 11:18 am UTC (link)
mmm thats perfect

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[info]nwolfsbane
2003-05-04 02:23 pm UTC (link)
Just wanted to agree that kisses are by far the best way to go to start off with as well as have fun heheh

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[info]markahix
2003-10-03 11:07 pm UTC (link)
*sigh* If only all women could kiss with even half that passion... man wouldn't war, we wouldn't fight, kill, or be evil men that we are... a kiss like one you describe would render even the most barbaric of men docile and completely unable to be anything but calm... kiss men, girl, kiss men and save them from themselves...

If only....
Why can't a woman kiss me with that kind of passion? Is that why i've got so much rage? because no kiss yet has been able to cancel it out?

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-10-03 11:57 pm UTC (link)
i guess you just need to kiss me.

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[info]markahix
2003-10-04 12:41 am UTC (link)
is that an offer? more specifically, an offer i can't refuse?

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-10-04 09:19 am UTC (link)
according to you, it would solve the madness of the world.

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[info]markahix
2003-10-04 09:20 am UTC (link)
well, why not prove or disprove that theory through a little... test?

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-10-04 09:27 am UTC (link)
easier said than done, my friend.

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[info]markahix
2003-10-04 09:28 am UTC (link)
touche... still, one must hold dearly to hope, for it is the last stronghold against all that is evil in this world... so, i'm gonna hope that someday, a girl will kiss me like you've described. till then, enjoy the kiss of the guys you like!!

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Breathless
[info]nstantkarma
2003-11-26 11:16 am UTC (link)
I saw your post in a friends journal lamenting that another LJ person doesn't like you. I can't imagine why but after reading just a couple of lines, I can't imagine why they wouldn't want to be your friend. I added you as a friend, I hope you will do the same. I am absolutlely drawn in by the things you say and am left utterly breathless.. but wanting more!
Rob

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[info]beyondbounds
2003-11-26 11:52 am UTC (link)
i added you.
well there is a ton of fun stuff in here.
welcome. :)

(and in defense of that guy, it wasn't this journal, it was another. but still me nonetheless)

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Hey
[info]star_kittie
2004-04-04 10:59 pm UTC (link)


All I can say I'm um..Oraly Fixated as well. I tell my currant that there is nothing better then him in my mouth and he just...oh yeah. Just wanted to say we're definitly on the same page....I think I'm gonna add ya. Hope ya don't mind sweetheart.

Love,
Catherine

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